What’s Up With the Beard?

One morning as I was looking at myself in the mirror shaving I thought it might be fun to write about why I grew my beard.

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If you look hard enough you can see the start of the mustache at 15.

I’ve had a moustache ever since I was sixteen.  For a brief period when I was in my mid twenties I did have a full on beard with my long hair but I only kept the beard for a couple of months.  I can’t remember why I shaved it off.

Back to why I grew the beard this time.

The night before this revelation my wife and I went out for dinner.  The restaurant had a couple of big screen televisions and on one of them was a major league baseball game.

My wife noticed that a number of the players had pretty substantial beards.  She asked me what is with all the beards.

I responded, I guess they are back in popularity right now.  I’m talking about the big bushy beards.

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My Great Great Grandpa, lucky guy kept his hair.

Judging from old portraits and old family photos I guessed those big bushy beards were popular in the late 1800’s and into the early 1900’s.  Perhaps now because of the Duck Dynasty show and for other reasons I am unaware of the big bushy beards are making a comeback.

I’ve been noticing them more and more on pro athletes, musicians and actors.

But I grew mine for a different reason.

First off it’s not what I would consider a beard.  It’s really a large goatee.

I’ve let it grow to about four inches in length.  It’s a bit of a compromise. My wife isn’t especially fond of it and I’d like to grow it to six inches or more.  So I keep it trimmed to three to four inches.

I started growing it right after I had the stents place in my heart.

I had a week off of work about one month after having the procedure done.  When I’m off of work I generally don’t shave unless I going somewhere that warrants me cleaning up my look.

When it came time for me to go back to work I had a week’s worth of stubble which gave me a pretty good indication of what my beard would look like if I left it grow.  I can tell where it will be thick and thin, and where it will be more black or more white or more salt and pepper.

I looked at myself and thought it’s time for a change.    It’s time for me to return to who I was when I was younger.

Unfortunately my hair has thinned to the point of where I am bald on top.  I refuse to be one of those pathetic old hippies who can’t let go when they lose their hair and are bald on top with a pony tail or worse yet use the dreaded comb over.

So I have my hair cropped real close.  But I do miss my long hair.

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Hair’s gone but now I have the beard.

That morning after looking at my stubble and thinking about all of this I shaved just my cheeks and neck, leaving the chin and around the mouth unshaven.  I liked the change in my appearance.

I’ll never look young and hip again but I think it makes me look “artistic”.  And that is what I wanted.  That is the change I was looking for, to get back to being an artist.

So the longer I left it grow the more defining it became.  People who never met me in person but saw my profile picture immediately knew who I was.  My beard or goatee is now like part of my branding.

But mainly it’s a statement.  Just like when I was a young man with hair down over my shoulders.  That was a statement back then that said I am a young, hip musician, a rock and roll musician.

My beard now says I am no longer the corporate drone who busts his ass for the queen bee and doesn’t get a taste of the honey.  I’m an individual who has a creative side that I value more than any corporate career.

I have toyed with the idea of the full on big bushy beard, but that may say I’m a prime candidate for Santa Claus at the mall.  But we’ll see.

© Otis P Smith and About the Groove, 2015. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this blog’s author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to Otis P Smith and About the Groove with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.

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